No matter what color your cabinet doors are it seems they become a magnet for fingerprints. If you are worried about that you can always use dish detergent and white vinegar. It works great for wiping away finger prints.
I do understand your concern, I also have seen that a lot of coaches either boast a lot of dark features or a whole lot on the light side with interior features. You can and want to create a balance between comfort and style.
At first just adding simple things like pops of color or fabrics that appeal to you you will see how much more it feels like home. Watch and see, how you feel in just that bit of a difference. If you have the budget you can go for new flooring, upgrades in fixtures or furniture you name it. It can be redone if it's not to your liking. If you don't have an eye for things like this you may want to consider hiring a professional. Good luck with finding a coach and then the fun part making it the coach of your dreams.
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